I also became obsessed with my heart rate, blood pressure, body measurement and clothes size — looking at dozens and dozens of different clothing companies to see what my size was. Personality disorders are tricky to diagnose, because much like the symptoms of autism, they look like they could be something else. Our fear of rejection and abandonment is also tied to the roots of each patients BPD, often having very strict and demanding families, or completely neglectful families, or a mix of the two, failed relationships, and bullying is an aspect related to the fear of rejection too). If I step outside the routine, I get intrusive thoughts and urges. How longer and how more often this negative situation takes place, how more hate, frustration, isolation and even agression arises in the autistic person. BPD is thought by most people to be caused by trauma. I feel for you…we have gone thru the same thing with my daughter..all i can say to you is “DON”T let all of this label YOU as the sick one” because it will make you sick if you let it….I always said there should be an OSCAR for this disorder because they are the best actors and can even fool their doctors and the courts. For instance, splitting may manifest as ‘silent treatment’, while autism can lead to it’s own kind of lack of communicative ability. People with BPD very rarely have ONLY BPD. Background: Both people with autism spectrum conditions (ASC) and borderline personality disorder (BPD) are significantly challenged in terms of understanding and responding to emotions and in interpersonal functioning. The single most specific criticism I would raise though, is that this article seems to be written from an emotional or personal standpoint, rather than a medical or psychological one. Now that I know I am different and that I think differently then most people life seems much easier. You’re very ill informed. Many times siblings and twins share the diagnosis but it can also be attributed to living within the same family environment. If you wish to understand BPD, then go to one of the online communities and read what the people who are “close” to someone with BPD have to say on the subject. Autistics are severely impaired in cognitive empathy and are hyper effective in affective empathy. This is a loaded gun you do not want to have to deal with. — Ummm..What? – psychological violence exert by BPD convinced to defend themselves is absolutely not a myth. Problemen visar sig ofta i relationer till andra. Even many many other diagnoses can be also growing, instead/ with personality disorders: Mood disorders, all kind of anxiety disorders, adhesion disorders, and many more. PLEASE I’M A FEMALE ASPIE PLEASE AND THANK YOU. You were diagnosed with bpd due to a toxic or abusive environment and or drug use but once not in the environment you have less symptoms and do not meet the criteria. There is no sugar coating it. you sound like me and i hate to tell you this but my daughter is 40yo and we are still going thru this…I have had custody of her son since he was a year old..she hates me and won’t listen to anything i try tell her…I believe it is the BPD that led to alcohol\drug addictions..so I have had to step away from her and try to help her son stay off the same path…It’s sad to say that i see a lot of the same behaviors in him. With autism/ enviroment origin, more often it are serious marks of personality disorder(s), not complete diagnosis. This includes 1 in 42 boys and 1 in 189 girls. Although autistic children may show a regression from normal development and “lose” words, children with borderline symptoms of autism may show a delay in language development instead. The confusion is not Autism, but those with High Functioning Autism (HFA) or Aspergers who are more likely to also have a personality disorder or perhaps just a multiple complexity of both disorders. Full time stay home dad of two boys, one touched by the spectrum. The 2018 National Autism Spectrum Disorder Surveillance System (NASS) Report estimates autism’s prevalence as 1 in 66 children in Canada. Claim to not remember anything at all. I weigh myself four times a day minimum, and every calorie I keep down is counted. Children with … Borderline autism symptoms include problems with: social skills, body use, the ability to adapt or make transitions, language and other sensory and developmental issues. Despite this significant comorbidity between ASD and BPD, no study had examined the co-occurrence of autistic traits and borderline personality disorder traits in the general population. Okay, I am one that believes that Borderline Personality Disorder and Autism are the same disorder. There is so much stigma around BPD though I think part of that is a gender thing. As a psychologist I have to agree with you that having Aspergers syndrome makes you vulnerable for personality disorders. – Unstable interpersonal relationships: This is not due to people with BPD being manipulative, immature, or cruel. It is the same behavior. Autistics take account. I thought I had bpd, even my doc said I might have it. This is NOT how a sufferer thinks of their loved ones daily! Oops! I am appalled that people still don’t understand that a condition means behaviour is not intentional. They will replace negative reflexive memories with memories that make others the “evil” ones. I have won a writing contest, in process of having some art and writing published for a book, I have had art work in a mental health awareness show. Respectfully, What’s more, we’re constantly overwhelmed by our own emotions and we basically just can’t make it stop. If anyone has a difficult time relating and connecting with her it’s my husband NOT me. because both exist in my family. – ADHD or ADD Let me tell you something. Brain abnormalities, genetics, and such have sadly not been researched enough to have any solid conclusion about them as causes or predisposition for BPD. If you know what the signs of autism are (see the previous answer), then that's what the signs of Asperger’s Syndrome are. Their completely irrational behavior doesn’t make sense to other adults and is definitely confusing to children. I have not been diagnosed with aspergers but I feel like it fits me so well and I am 28. though I also have PTSD for multiple traumas mostly sexual and a lot of them happened as adults because I did not understand how stuff works in the real world or the adult world. It has now been 19 months since I have seen these children even though I have been in court the whole time trying to do so. BPD is an illness not a choice or a moral failing. You cannot imagine how hard it is to live with BPD. The other sabotages. We have reactionary moods and emotions, which differentiates BPD from Bipolar Disorder, because Bipolar (When is not co-existing with BPD in the same person, which is also highly common) has CYCLIC moods; there’s periods of depression, then periods of mania, and in some patients they can even be predicted if they’ve been studied (By a doctor or themselves) long enough to see a pattern. I am also moving out in the next two months to really undertake recovery and live the life I’ve always wanted. They are not projecting anything.They don’t have ‘poor self esteem’.
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